Archives for March, 2007

Don’t Turn Away from Your Strengths - Support Them


People used to say about one of my old workmates:”Bill’s got 110% enthusiasm. But it’s that extra 10% that gets him in trouble”.
I’ve come to disagree.
Bill’s problem was not too much enthusiasm; that was his strength (or one of them). His problem was the weakness(es) that undermined the good his optimism and energy accomplished. His good work was undone by poor communication.
If [...]

Self-definition: What Do You Want?


I spent some time last year singing the virtues of the magical word NO as a means for protecting ourselves, setting healthy limits, marking the boundaries of a better life. But in defining ourselves - whether in relationships, marketing, or whatever - at some stage we have to say YES to something. 
Have you ever met someone who defines themselves [...]